Here is the relevant information for the third documented violation of my Order of Custody and Parenting Time by my son’s mother, on the face of that same order.
The reason that I felt my lawyer was being to harsh, and that I needed to get him off the case, was that my son’s mother and I had been very accommodating to each other for years, and I didn’t feel that the cause for her violations of the Order of Custody and Parenting Time, was because she was choosing within her full capacity to violate the order. I didn’t want to revisit this issue within a few years or less, so I felt that it was most prudent to find the cause of these issues, and then resolve that cause itself. It still really doesn’t make sense to me why she would all of a sudden just start to disregard a court order.
Here is the email between our attorneys, which shows that my son’s mother’s attorney, either accidentally or on purpose, agreed to 11AM-8:30PM for the substituted days.
Here are the texts:
Angela Gasparini <Angela Gasparini>
Fri, Apr 28, 2017 at 10:44 PM
To: Mike Rotondo
Tomorrow I’m doing 10-6
So I’ll drop off at 10
Mike Rotondo <Mike Rotondo>
Fri, Apr 28, 2017 at 10:45 PM
To: Angela Gasparini <Angela Gasparini>
Did your lawyer not tell you the 11-830 part? I’m assuming you got the email I sent you, that I got.
Angela Gasparini <Angela Gasparini>
Fri, Apr 28, 2017 at 10:53 PM
To: Mike Rotondo
Yes I can do 10-6
That’s all I can do
Mike Rotondo <Mike Rotondo>
Fri, Apr 28, 2017 at 10:55 PM
To: Angela Gasparini <Angela Gasparini>
Your saying yes your lawyer didn’t tell you that the times would be 11830?
Angela Gasparini <Angela Gasparini>
Fri, Apr 28, 2017 at 10:56 PM
To: Mike Rotondo
If 10-6 won’t work let me know now
That’s my plan for tomorrow
We switched days
The hours remain the same
Take it or leave it
I’m going to bed
Angela Gasparini <Angela Gasparini>
Fri, Apr 28, 2017 at 11:01 PM
To: Mike Rotondo
Are you doing 10-6 or not?
Mike Rotondo <Mike Rotondo>
Fri, Apr 28, 2017 at 11:06 PM
To: Angela Gasparini <Angela Gasparini>
I’m not agreeing to change our agreement.
Angela Gasparini <Angela Gasparini>
Fri, Apr 28, 2017 at 11:06 PM
To: Mike Rotondo
Ok, I’ll just hang onto him tomorrow then
I’m not playing this game
I need to know tonight what’s going on
Mike Rotondo <Mike Rotondo>
Fri, Apr 28, 2017 at 11:06 PM
To: Angela Gasparini <Angela Gasparini>
I’m not agreeing to change our agreement.
Angela Gasparini <Angela Gasparini>
Fri, Apr 28, 2017 at 11:08 PM
To: Mike Rotondo
Then forget it
I’ll see you Tuesday
Mike Rotondo <Mike Rotondo>
Fri, Apr 28, 2017 at 11:09 PM
To: Angela Gasparini <Angela Gasparini>
If you’re not going to let me see him tomorrow then I want to see him Sunday.
Angela Gasparini <Angela Gasparini>
Fri, Apr 28, 2017 at 11:12 PM
To: Mike Rotondo
It’s my baby shower
That’s not happening
You can do 10-6 tomorrow
That’s what I can do
I’m not doing this all night
Take it or don’t
Mike Rotondo <Mike Rotondo>
Fri, Apr 28, 2017 at 11:14 PM
To: Angela Gasparini <Angela Gasparini>
I’m not willing to change our agreement.
Angela Gasparini <Angela Gasparini>
Fri, Apr 28, 2017 at 11:17 PM
To: Mike Rotondo
Great
Then I’ll see you Tuesday
Mike Rotondo <Mike Rotondo>
Fri, Apr 28, 2017 at 11:24 PM
To: Angela Gasparini <Angela Gasparini>
Here’s what I don’t understand, you have three choices, two of which should be perfectly acceptable: 1. follow what I was
told that you had agreed to. 2. Follow what you’ve told me you had agreed to, and blame any fallout on your attorney for
purging you. Or 3. The worst choice, make me enforce the court order for Sunday.
If I don’t see him tomorrow I’m getting a police report on Sunday.
Angela Gasparini <Angela Gasparini>
Fri, Apr 28, 2017 at 11:28 PM
To: Mike Rotondo
I’m done being harassed by you
I really am
I’m sick of being treated this way
You don’t want 10-6 tomorrow, fine
Do what you have to
You’re sick and need help
See you Tuesday
Mike Rotondo <Mike Rotondo>
Fri, Apr 28, 2017 at 11:35 PM
To: Angela Gasparini <Angela Gasparini>
Angela on Tuesday I’m getting my attorney taken off the case, and representing myself, because he won’t do anything
besides things which i believe are harsher to you then I think you deserve, but if you’re just never going to start doing
what you’re supposed to, which is follow agreements an orders, then maybe I should let him proceed and you can go to
jail for a weekend, which it something he had casually mentioned to me.
Angela Gasparini <Angela Gasparini>
Fri, Apr 28, 2017 at 11:41 PM
To: Mike Rotondo
I’m calling the police now if you don’t stop
I’m going to bed
I’m done being threatened
You don’t want what I offered
So no need to keep texting
Do what
Angela Gasparini <Angela Gasparini>
Fri, Apr 28, 2017 at 11:41 PM
To: Mike Rotondo
you feel necessary
I will not stand in the way
The police report says that I was “unwilling to be flexible”, which is nothing more than a fabrication. My text message to my son’s mother sent to her on Fri, Apr 28, 2017 at 11:24 PM clearly shows that my son’s mother chose to violate the court order for April 30, 2017.
Police are trying to get Hitman right now to take you out you’re responsible for 99% of their calls
Ok thank you for your comment.
If you put the amount of effort into finding a job as you put intro trying to make yourself look like the victim, you’d see most of your problems would disappear
All I do is post my court documents and texts and such. I don’t need to characterize these things in any way, they speak for themselves. And also, Chad, I have a job; and I’m sorry to say that when that happened the court didn’t use their time machine to go back in time and recognize my rights. You can look forward to my posts about the trial and appeal process, they’ll be very exciting I promise. Thanks for your comment.
What is your job? How many mugs have you sold? And have the proceeds gone to your son?
Michael, you’re expected to accept approximate time changes, especially when there are work schedule conflicts and the deviation still allows for visitation on the same day. Nobody will ever receive jail time for starting visitation an hour early. Turning down her offer undermines any claim that you would do anything to see your son.
Wrong.
Michael, it’s quite sad to read all your blog posts and see that you are still the same entitled millennial you became famous for. You clearly have a self centered attitude that does not allow you to think or emphatise with other people. I read your post about the visitation issues. So the agreed time where 11am-8:30pm but your ex couldn’t do that on a specific day as she was having a baby shower and was offering you 10am-6pm. To me and to most people that seams a very reasonable compromise considering the circumstances. So you are entitled to 9:30hs of visitation time but she was offering “only” 8hs starting an hour earlier. 8hs are still 84% of your visiting time allocation so it’s a fact she was still honouring a significant portion of your visiting times. The fact that you declined that offer shows that you are only thinking about yourself. You preferred to decline the offer to make a point while you could have still see your son for 8hs. In fact if you really wanted to see him you could have easily document the fact that visiting times were not as agreed while still having a visit. Another option could have been to accept the 8hs but compensate the missing 1:30hs at some other time. There are so many options when you are willing to compromise. You are so blinded by your “rights” to see that you made the situation worst for everyone involved:
1) You made it worst for yourself because your decision to decline the adjusted visiting times led you to not having to see your son on that day
2) You made it worst to your son as he didn’t get to see you on that day
3) You made it worst for your ex causing unnecessary stress as the adjusted visiting times were reasonable and you should have accepted them
You seem to like to defend your rights but don’t seem to think about your son’s rights. Visiting rights are there not just for the father’s right to see his children but for the children to see their father. Did you think about your son’s wishes when you declined the 10-6 offer? Did you not think he would have preferred to still see you for 8hs? Did you think that he would have wanted to be in the baby shower so the 10-6 adjusted times were also in his best interests not just your ex’s? I really wonder what your son would have thought about this situation. While he might still be young to understand he won’t be for long and you will end up losing his side if you act like this. Imagine the same situation when he is 15 years old and wants to see you? Will he be happy about you declining 10-6 just because “you are entitled” to 11-8:30? I say this from experience as my parents divorced when I was young.
One day you are going to realise all this wasted energy in defending your “rights” it’s going to lead nowhere. Your parents don’t want to hear from you anymore. Your ex certainly wouldn’t stand by you anywhere. The police don’t want to take your reports anymore and the courts have and will give you no leeway. Perhaps it’s about time you start to realise that if “the whole world is against you” there is a tiny possibility the issue is not the whole world but you…
“In fact if you really wanted to see him you could have easily document the fact that visiting times were not as agreed while still having a visit.”
Response: Wrong, any grievance that I would have brought to the court for the lost 1.5 hours would have been estopped by the fact that I had agreed to the change the times; Or at best, the court would consider that any representation made, that this same agreement made by me to change to the reduced duration, quashes any subsequent grievance made by me regarding the same reduced duration, would have merit.
“There are so many options when you are willing to compromise.”
Response: You as well. My merits were justified on their face, please kindly recognize them so that you may share my considerations for the illegal nature of my proceedings.
1) You made it worst for yourself because your decision to decline the adjusted visiting times led you to not having to see your son on that day
Response to #1: Wrong
2) You made it worst to your son as he didn’t get to see you on that day
Response to #2: My son’s mother “made it worse for my son” that day by committing the act that caused me not to see him Christian…
3) You made it worst for your ex causing unnecessary stress as the adjusted visiting times were reasonable and you should have accepted them
Response to #3: She could have simply followed through with “#2” from my ‘Fri, Apr 28, 2017 at 11:24 PM’ text to her; after having asked her attorney what to do, or otherwise just done what her attorney said to… No stress at all.
“You seem to like to defend your rights but don’t seem to think about your son’s rights.”
Response: My son’s mother and the courts each and both are the parties whom are (were) doing this to him….
“Did you think about your son’s wishes when you declined the 10-6 offer?”
Response: Did his mother? The person whom isn’t following the order? Did the courts? Who were choosing not to enforce the order???? Or was it me; who wanted the established visitation…
“Will he be happy about you declining 10-6 just because “you are entitled” to 11-8:30?”
Response: ….I don’t have to forgo anything because his mother decides to change her mind, Christian…
Your opinion is biased Christian; I’ll respond to comments like yours with the hope that individuals with similar opinions will see my responses and consider them. Thank you for your comment.